What is same-sex attraction?

Same-sex or same-gender attraction is a term used to describe sexual, emotional, and/or physical attraction for someone of the same gender (biological sex). This term only describes the attraction itself and does not imply one is acting on that attraction.

Here is a list of some additional terms that are important to note and may be used by individuals to describe differing types of same-sex attraction:

• Homosexual: someone who experiences same-sex attraction.

• Lesbian: a female homosexual.

• Gay: adjective for someone who experiences same-sex attraction.

• Queer: adjective for someone who experiences same-sex attraction, but potentially other sexual attractions.

• Bisexual: adjective for someone who experiences both same-sex (homosexual) and opposite-sex (heterosexual) attractions.

• Questioning: someone who may be questioning or trying to figure out their sexual orientation.

What do the Brethren say about using these labels?

“Feeling same-sex attraction or choosing to use a sexual identity label (such as gay, lesbian, or bisexual) is not a sin and does not violate Church policy. Words like gay and lesbian mean different things to different people. Identifying as gay may mean a member experiences same-sex attraction but chooses not to act on these feelings. This label may also describe how they express themselves emotionally, physically, romantically, sexually, or politically. Do not assume an individual is breaking the law of chastity because they use a sexual identity label” (Counseling Resources; Same-Sex Attraction).