Musings of a Queer Saint
“An amalgamation of my random thoughts and insights relating to anything concerning same-sex attraction and Latter-day Saint doctrine and culture. Yes, my grammar and punctuation might be little off, but I’m making my voice heard and writing anyway. Enjoy.”
— Tember Harward
Please note: Specific beliefs, behaviours, and individual’s choices are often critiqued in this blog out of concern for the adverse ramifications of those beliefs, behaviours, and choices. Expressing disagreement with and concern for one’s beliefs or actions is not the same as attacking that individual or group, and originates from the authors’ love for the individuals or groups in question, and their concern for their welfare. Please, do not misconstrue the expressions of disagreement or criticism in these posts as the authors attacking or shaming individuals or groups. We deeply love all men and women and desire the best for their spiritual welfare; we know that the best spiritual welfare is achieved through surrendering our wills to Jesus Christ and living his gospel.
Acting on Same-Sex Attraction is Beautiful & Enriching.
I had a conversation with Ben Schilaty …
New FSY Guide clarifies doctrine regarding Same-Sex Attraction & Dating.
Why I write my blog: To defend the Lord’s sheep.
Same-Sex Sealings: Inevitably to be permitted by the Brethren?
Is it Divisive to Stand for Truth & Address Societal Ills?
Discovering Authenticity: My Story of Conversion to Jesus as a Gay Man.
Love is not Love.
Allies’ unbridled compassion is harming Gay Latter-day Saints.
Romantic Love is not a necessary prerequisite for a Successful Marriage.
‘Lying back on Jesus’ chest was one of his disciples, whom Jesus loved.’
Men have been deprived of more fulfilling friendships with each other due to flawed cultural norms and the “homosexualisation”of platonic intimacy among men. Correspondingly, loneliness is one of the leading causes of adverse emotional and physical health effects among men.
My ‘Journey into Manhood’ experience and its effect on my Same-Sex Attraction—It’s not what you think it is.
Christmas & the hope it brings me as a same-sex-attracted Latter-day Saint.
‘Your truth’ doesn’t exist; there’s only ‘the truth.’
Dear Prospective Missionary: Serving isn’t going to make your Same-Sex Attraction go away.
If you experience same-sex attraction, serving a mission is not going to make it go away. Please get support and resources now.
I remember what the Lord has done for me.
ἀρσενοκοῖται–Paul’s meaning is crystal clear
Pride is NOT the antidote to shame.
Why Queer?
Why use the term “queer”?